My name is Karli Steen I am 24, and living with Spastic CP. This blog will outline any issue I deem to be interesting or important; mainly (but not always) highlighting my experiences with a disability.
Thursday, 27 September 2012
The "Problem" That''s Not Going Anywhere
On Monday, we covered Mental Institutions in Disability Studies class. We talked about in the early 1900s and even earlier, there were places where people with disabilities and illnesses people couldn't understand or deal with were slumped together. These places were known as "Asylums for Idiots". The most populated location was in Orillia, and there was even one here in London Ontario. Every parents of disabled or ill children, world be convinced that if they were placed in these asylums, they would be rehabilitated and no longer a problem to society The caretakers would delegate them into intelligence groups like Idiots, and Insane. The residents were subjected to religious practices under the pretense that they would result in positive changes. The government reports would indicate that the conditioners in which the residents were living were top-notch, but they were overpopulated, and the activities that supposedly were part of the "healing" process were producing nothing but blank stares. I realize that in the past people were less educated, and their intentions were good, but the system was very flawed. My teacher ended the lecture by saying how far we've come, and that those attrocities have ceased to exist... I beg to differ!
They come in a different form! People aee much more educated in illnesses and disabilities than in earlier centuries, but not everybody involved in the fields puts it to good use. I have, for thr most part, a good set of workers. However, there are some that you can instantly tell are in the job for the wrong reasons. The most common being that the job is easy... WRONG! The job is so far from easy, that if you better quit while you'e ahead! It's unfortunate, because these people usually have good intentions, but then they get scared by the most essential needs like using the bathroom and taking showers. This often results in uncleanliness and infection, which can lead to worse.Some people take the job forgetting that it is self directed care. No matter how many times you tell them that a task is done one way, they'll do it how they see fit. I know not every helper or caretaker is like that, and top of the hat to those ones; but this is nearly 2013, we live emong society because we are a part of it. We are not an easy job, we are not a problem, and we are NOT going anywhere!
Karli
Monday, 24 September 2012
Lessons Learned & Lessons Taught
It seems like every year, the Education
System is jeopardized in one way or another.
The latest decision to halt extracurricular activities leaves me reeling,
even as I sit safely (for now) at Western. Extracurricular activities played a
big part in my early years of school, and even still in my current school life.
Some of my first friends were made at before and after school programs, I
remember hoping that my mom was late so I stayed long enough for snack time or
homework help. I was too busy enjoying the program to notice that someone had
to be up at 5 to have the place open for 7, or stay late until every kid was
home. As i look back now I am very thankful. My ALL time favourite activity was
the MUSIC program! I took part in choirs and musicals for many years, until
highschool (and fear of the boy in band I liked, hearing me sing) killed my
will. To this day that is one of my biggest regrets, because I missed the
chance to be taught by an amazing woman, Angela Southern. I could tell you that
despite not a single moment spent in her music room, the magic she works with
music still inspires me today! I believe that that
these experiences should not be threatened, and I salute those who provide
them!
Now I’m going to talk of my
experiences more generally. I can remember several strikes/ threats of them.
The first I recall was in 97, the strike actually did happen. I didn’t mind so
much because my teacher WAS actually lazy and not supportive of my disability.
After a while though, my mom’s attempts at teaching became rather sad and
empty. The second I can remember was grade 8. While everybody was worried about
how the pending strike would affect the Wonderland trip, I was worried for my
favourite teacher Bill Panopoulos, who had quite seriously earlier that day,
given a lecture to the class on how “THE WORLD WILL NOT SPOOOOOOON
FEEEEEEEEEEEEEEED YOOOOOOUUUUU!” Though I will always laugh at its extra
stressed delivery, it’s a lecture I won’t soon forget. I have a SUPER soft spot
for EA’s. They make sure kids get all the extra help they NEED! I can tell you
I learned more in a 20 minute bathroom break with them than ANY teacher could
EVER teach! They were my safety nets, helped me grow, learn, deal with
heartbreak, death and loss, saw me laugh, cry, triumph, and fail... So when EA’s
strike, it’s a direct blow... When the system is jeopardized, the learning opportunities
may seem squashed, but you can never squash the student teacher relationship! I’ll
never forget the pride I felt when I gave Dave Semple, the man who sparked my
love for English, a black and white still of his prized motorcycle. I went
about as red as my hair as he hung it up, and it’s STILL there! I won’t forget
Linda Harvey-Rioux who sparked my creativity through technology; or how Judy
Carter spent a class and a half trying to help mw grasp poetry and was the
first one I went to when I FINALLY got the ramp we needed. I never expected that
today, I would be having tea and cookies with my grade 6 teacher, and she would
always be there when I needed an ear, or someone to share ideas with. Whatever
happens, I hope it is settled soon, and thank you for the lessons I was meant to learn,
and those I never expected to...
Karli
Sunday, 23 September 2012
Ain't no Love like King's Love!
I haven't written here in a while, so I guess I better start
up again...
School is back in session, and
I'm sure I'll have a lot to say in this year.
However, let me use this post to explain the most amazing, yet
exhausting week that was Orientation Week.
At first, I was really nervous, because my Sophs made such an impact on
me last year; and I wanted to do the same for the incoming frosh. I had no need to worry though, because I was
working with a great team, and I have never seen such a friendly and talented
group of frosh. Though the mornings were
early, and the nights were late, I would definitely do it again. The days were filled with cheering, dancing,
chatting., playing games, and eating Nutella, which became my new favorite food
spread. The cheering came loudest from
King's, and thanks to my friend Shaidon Woods,, and the energy demonstrated by
the Sophs and frosh alike, King’s was
able to take home the Spirit Award. I really enjoyed the whole week, I had 2 all-time
favourite moments. The first was
Shinerama Day, because I take charity very seriously, and it was heartwarming
to know that so many people were united for a good cause. My second favourite
part was the King’s talent showcase. I was able to debut my “sit down” comedy
routine, and turn a basic hobby into laughter. What I was most impressed with,
was the froshes’ wonderful talents, If the talents and personalities I’ve seen
are any indication, I’d say that the future of King’s is bright!
Home
Is
Wherever
I'm
With
YOU!
Karli
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